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hi. 15/m
me and this girl put off going out with each other because she wanted to make sure it was ok with her freind who also likes me. well from another of her freinds, she found out that the other girl doesnt like me, yet, she still wants to make sure.
she isnt exacly hurrying up, and im starting to think if she even likes me anymore. we normally talk on msn, and after i told her there wasnt much chemistry the first time we met up, she said that she thinks we should meet up again and get to know each other a bit more.

now im all ok woteva...but if she doesnt bring up meeting up next week, should i assume she's not interested anymore, or bring it up and ask her? because i really like this girl.

Why did you post (pretty much) the same thing twice? :blink:

"hi. ok well i like this girl, and she likes me, and she doesnt want to go out with me just yet, because one of her freind who likes me to, so im thinkin whatever...according to her, she doesnt want to go out wif me because its not fair on her freind, and she's going to get her other freind to talk to this other girl. i keep thinking that she's using this as an excuse probabaly because she doent like me, even though its not true...like yeah. kind of stupid really, but any advice would do...infact any reply wot so ever will probabaly help..."

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EDIT: No, actually, three times.

"15/m.hi, well the first time i went on a date with this girl, i find it really hard to like talk. we both did. theres nothing really to say. weve talked about everything. ive asked about her, what she likes, what she doesnt etc and vice versa. there really is nothing to talk about. there will be odd moments of silence for like 1 minute or two when no one says anything. we rugularly talked on msn, and thats when we had most of out conversations, and now that ive asked all the main questions, im finding it hard to actually think of things to say. thanks "

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I'm sure if anyone had any advice to give you, they would.

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hi. 15/m
me and this girl put off going out with each other because she wanted to make sure it was ok with her freind who also likes me. well from another of her freinds, she found out that the other girl doesnt like me, yet, she still wants to make sure.
she isnt exacly hurrying up, and im starting to think if she even likes me anymore. we normally talk on msn, and after i told her there wasnt much chemistry the first time we met up, she said that she thinks we should meet up again and get to know each other a bit more.

now im all ok woteva...but if she doesnt bring up meeting up next week, should i assume she's not interested anymore, or bring it up and ask her? because i really like this girl.
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just bring it up and ask her, what's the worst that could happen?

"There's more to life than petty love."

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"There's more to life than petty love."
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I tottally agree with You again .. umm buddy who posted it.. YOU'RE 15 your gunna run into this situation a milllllion more times in life!! .. if it doesnt work get over it .

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hi. 15/m
me and this girl put off going out with each other because she wanted to make sure it was ok with her freind who also likes me. well from another of her freinds, she found out that the other girl doesnt like me, yet, she still wants to make sure.
she isnt exacly hurrying up, and im starting to think if she even likes me anymore. we normally talk on msn, and after i told her there wasnt much chemistry the first time we met up, she said that she thinks we should meet up again and get to know each other a bit more.

now im all ok woteva...but if she doesnt bring up meeting up next week, should i assume she's not interested anymore, or bring it up and ask her? because i really like this girl.
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Teenage admiration is the sweetest thing.
really it seems like everyone on here is old and dead.
don't listen to the old farts here. i think you should bring it up the next time you meet up with her, because if you don't and let her slip away you'll regret it.

the story with her asking her friends sounds kinda shady to me by the way.

regrets are silly. stop living in the past maaaaan...