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Okay this is difficult to say without giving too many details so i apologise if it makes no sense
Has anyone ever hated anyone so much but it tears you up because you really love the person?
I don't mean this in a boyfriend/girlfriend type of way and I know it sounds dumb and a bit emo but I don't know what to do or how to react.
This person is really making things difficult and I really love them but I don't know what to do.
I sometimes think that I should just give up the whole thing but I really don't want to.
Any suggestions? I've already tried talking, they're the only person i've ever been able to talk to and now they wont hear me.

usually when feelings like that come into play it's because one of the two (or more) people involved need space.

and keep in mind... [i:2rt9e33o]never[/i:2rt9e33o] waste your time on someone that isn't worth a negative emotion.

who ever this person/z is u don't deserve to feel like that an if they continue to act that way then as forgotten says its a waste of time....and its is unfair on you...i'm here if u wanna talk

I tend to become an asshole like that, especially to the people I love, during jan-may. what a waste of 5 months. I do it to all the guys I date for a long time. Come january, I can't stand being restricted or held onto.


my advice: Is give them space, they'll come around most of the time.

thanks I didn't think of that ^ ^_^

myself?

I mean...i don't love myself
I hate myself..


but..yeah.
I hated someone,but at the same time,i couldn't live without thinking about him.

boohoo. then change.

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boohoo. then change.
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MEOWW.



Anyway,haha, there's a woman at work I hate, but I know if I'm immature and TELL her or act like a prick around her then I'll lose my job. So I kinda just have to swallow my pride (and keep my fists down my trousers) and get on with life

People you dislike will come and go..at the end of the day it's your choice to have them in your life or not.

If it's family, then you could go stay with someone else for a while until it's sorted
If it's a friend, then you could just not hang with them for a while.
If it's yourself..then only you can change that.

yeh. i just have no sympathy for people who say they hate themselves. if you hate yourself, then DO something about it. don't cry in your little corner. less talk, more action.

so say its family and you don't have anywhere to stay for a while. You get on with this person loads most of the time but they change around certain people in a really bad way.. what do you do then?

talk to them about it.

I meant is there a way I could fix it [i:3joy67ih]without[/i:3joy67ih] getting hit
no i'm only joking, I have tried but as soon as I do they get angry and I feel reeeeeally guilty and then back out
I suppose the answer to that is get over it and just say it?
Its not been so bad because the person they 'change' around has been gone for a week but they're back today.
Family member is round there now. I'm a bit scared for when they come back :wacko: