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hi. 15/m. ok so the other day i was telling this girl how my dad was an alcoholic, and how stupidly, i drink a lot, not as much as my dad, but quite a bit, and how i came home one time as pissed as my dad used to be.
i told her that she was the first person i told about my family problems(because she is). so today, my freind told me how the girl i like- and i thought she liked me too- told him that she thinks she doesnt have feelings like she used to for me, because im negative, and "folowing in my dads footsteps". ok whatever.
stupidly, i told her how i didnt like her anymore, probabaly because i didnt want her to tell me that she didnt like me. but the thing is i really do like her. and she made my freind promise that he wont tell me, that she told him. and now he isnt letting me tell her that she told him about my family. ok i think its sort of stupid how my "freind" is sort of risking our good freindship as freinds, becuse of the girl that i like? because of a stupid promise? what do you lot think?

also, what should i do with this girl? she told my good freind something i decided only to tell her. and today when i asked her if she told anyone, she says no! when my freind just told me that she did!? she also went and told him that she's confused about me, before she told me.

thanks a lot people..pretty long but answer if ya can

stop paying attention to people. go to school. read some books. quit your full-time job as a dramaking.

ps: "freind" is spelled FRIEND lol : )

a bot with feelings

forget about the girl. she betrayed your trust and lied about it. and instead of helping you out through a hard time, in a way she kind of abandoned you. i know you can't just say bye to your feeling for her overnight, but i know i wouldn't want anything with someone who did that to me.

and tell your friends how you feel about him jeopardizing your friendship like that. talk it out. that way, if you really really feel the need to talk to her about telling your friend things you told your privately, you know you won't be risking your friend's trust because you've already talked about it. it's not like going behind his back.

but then again, i don't know all the details. based on what you said, this is what i'd do. but you have to judge for yourself--you're the one who has to live with the decisions.

I've never met a female who hasn't told someone's secret to another person.

I don't have time to correct that bad sentence.

TRUST IN TRACY

Girls lie <3


Okay, on a serious note, I RECKON that the one before Tracy's post was some good advice.