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Now, dont get me wrong on this thread, I know people like to take precautions during their pregnancy but damn, is anyone else thinking things are getting a little out of hand with everything now?
I mean fair enough with smoking and drinking but some of the things theyre warning you against now are just so stupid.

examples;

exersize
stress

those are the only two i can think of off the top of my head, but what do you think about this?

Personally, I can never get pregnant, nor will I probably never get the chance to impregnate a woman I care about, so I don't usually comment on such things.
But like you said, most of that shit's so goddamn idiotic.

Those types of birth defects are caused by sporadic(sp) birth defects, or 'unknown reasons', and people put the blame on something they've pulled out their hat.
So people are just paranoid idiots.

But to be fair, some women get concerned with what they're eating because certain things can hurt a baby.

well, the baby abosorbs everything that you do...stress included.

They say caffeine too, but now they are changing their minds...

There was a study on 9/11 babies and they showed what the effect of the stress had on them as their moms were pregnant...they say it can lead to ADD, ADHD and other things...I was mega stressed during my second pregnancy and I can see the effects in my son, its hard to explain.

Exersice is fine as long as you aren't doing anything over the top...I.E.-weight lifting...

theres tones of things they cant eat aswell i think

^^Lol...yeah save that for the actual labor.

they say not to take hot showers while being pregnant. supposively, it makes your bodily fluids hot and its bad on the baby. if the fluids get too hot, it can make your baby retarded.

falling down the stairs

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they say not to take hot showers while being pregnant. supposively, it makes your bodily fluids hot and its bad on the baby. if the fluids get too hot, it can make your baby retarded.
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i can't take a shower if the water's under 37 degrees...(celsius).. i guess id be screwed then, if i ever wanted a baby.

[quote="ballsy broad":2mod5h4q]
they say not to take hot showers while being pregnant. supposively, it makes your bodily fluids hot and its bad on the baby. if the fluids get too hot, it can make your baby retarded.
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wtf this thread is making me scared about having a baby now.

i love hot baths.

[quote="General P.Benis":2yq1l115]
Personally, I can never get pregnant, nor will I probably never get the chance to impregnate a woman I care about, so I don't usually comment on such things.
But like you said, most of that shit's so goddamn idiotic.

Those types of birth defects are caused by sporadic(sp) birth defects, or 'unknown reasons', and people put the blame on something they've pulled out their hat.
So people are just paranoid idiots.

But to be fair, some women get concerned with what they're eating because certain things can hurt a baby.
[/quote:2yq1l115]


i agree

: / pregnany is a tough cookie. I personally don't think I would be a good mum anyway. Good ol' ovaries. not producing ovums. <pats tummy>

stress, both physical and mental puts a strain on the baby, and can cause spotting, and pre term labour, happened to my aunt,, she hasnt been at work for two monts, and she isnt due til april.. and the hot shower thing.. it is strictly heat.. it doesnt make the baby retarded.. but it raises your internal temp, including the babies temp.. which isnt good, and technically if you go hot tubbing or something for an extended period of time, it would be like a double broiler and just cook the baby inside of you because a fetus cannot handle extreme temperatures like a grown adult can

..hope this cleared some stuff up.. i got the hot water part from a nurse.. so it should be semi true haha

showers are fine. it's baths and hot tubs you have to stay away from. soaking in 100 degree water can cook your baby.

I wonder if anyone has cooked their baby now.
And I wonder what happens after it's been cooked.
:mellow:

A certain tea will make you have a miscarriage if you drink it while pregnant.

it seems everything these days makes your kid retarded.
babysoup?

they're linking ultra sounds within the first twenty weeks of pregnancy to autism.

im not sure why stress is such a hard thing to believe.

everyone gets stressed, but they aren't talking about every day stress when they say it can harm your baby.

if something can harm you, your baby is the last thing that is safe. [url=http://www.helpguide.org/mental/stress_signs.htm#stress_signs_symptoms:377s4ayp]http://www.helpguide.org/mental/stress_sig..._signs_symptoms[/url:377s4ayp]

i had bad problems due to stress. stress is one thing you don't want to fuck with. and i guarentee you if i was carrying a child, it would have not lived.

all doctors will also say that you should NEVER exercise more while pregnant than you did while you weren't pregnant. it puts more strain on your body even while you're not carrying a child. that could especially be harmful [i:2vmpukvq]while[/i:2vmpukvq] being pregnant. stretching and yoga for pregnant women are always good. if your body isn't used to more, do NOT do it.

everything you do has an effect on the babes in your tummy. as well as actions.
as if you were to drink coffee a baby becomes a caffiene addict.
if your violent, mad, happy, sad etc. etc. your baby will recieve those hormones that you are sharing with them.
example: stress. causes the baby to motion as well as its heart rate to go faster than its normal rate. or slower. such stress can cause the baby to end up dying. as what almost happend to i myself.

its just the same as if you were raising them already out of the womb.
(feeding them pop or candy before they should even know what it is yet changes its wellbeing and lifestyle)

untill they are able to learn and understand.

lol i know i may sound like i'll be depriving my child. but if i ever have a kid. they wont know of sugar till the age 7. or even pop. watching my niece go out to eat everyday for lunch and having a pop in favor of water has changed my perception of giving kids sugar. she's almost 3... she used to be so sweet and say she would stop being rude. but now. she's this caniving lil witch of a child refuses everything but sugar. -_-

makes me want to get my tubes tied

I guess breathing during pregnancy can also kill your baby too, I'd watch out hah

I'm never getting pregnant, too many rules, I'd be stressed out over the rules then my baby would come out without a leg or something hah
Mind you I wouldn't believe anything other than what my doctor tells me

[quote="Jessica":3d6p8dcx]
everything you do has an effect on the babes in your tummy. as well as actions.
as if you were to drink coffee a baby becomes a caffiene addict.
if your violent, mad, happy, sad etc. etc. your baby will recieve those hormones that you are sharing with them.
example: stress. causes the baby to motion as well as its heart rate to go faster than its normal rate. or slower. such stress can cause the baby to end up dying. as what almost happend to i myself.

its just the same as if you were raising them already out of the womb.
(feeding them pop or candy before they should even know what it is yet changes its wellbeing and lifestyle)

untill they are able to learn and understand.
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that's a little over the top, but you're on the right track.

have you ever seen a baby given its first piece of cake or cookie or sugary cereal or ice cream? their face lights up and they go apeshit over the stuff. you're going to have the same results as if it's a seven year old given their first treat, assuming their classmates/teachers haven't already gone there with them.

i see what you're saying, but there are some things that you just can't control.

and no, not everything that affects your tummy affects your baby. because your baby isn't actually in your tummy. the baby squooshes your tummy up into your ribs and lungs. for instance, i can take pepto bismol and not have it affect my baby in the slightest.


you guys should really check out [url=http://www.webmd.com:3d6p8dcx]http://www.webmd.com[/url:3d6p8dcx] go to women and find the pregnancy homepage. check out the FAQ's. if you find the forums also note that they do have doctors that post and reply to questions.

theres a girl in my form class at school whos due to give birth in august/september

and shes only 14/15
she found out yesterday that its going to be a boy.

shame shes a bitch :/

xoxo

Because my mom was taking anti-depressant medications during pregnany. I got manic depression and bipolar, and social anxirty disorder. That's at least what my doctor says. That shit DOES run in families, btw. That's one reason why I'm afraid to ever have kids.

yeh, it does run in the family. i doubt her anti-depressants had anything to do with that.... it's genetics.

there's a good and a bad to everything. having a kid is scary, no matter what genetic make-up you have. can't avoid that.

hehe. no when your pregnant taking meds can affect the baby.
you might as well say a mother doing heroin wont affect the baby.
the meds go into your blood in which you share with the baby. the things you eat or drink are being shared with the baby. it sure isnt eating the wall of your uterus. half of what you digest goes into your babys stomach.

a baby doesnt have an umbilical cord for nothing.

medications have labels "consult your doctor."

i'm sure her doctor knew what was going on. my point was her mother taking anti-depressants wouldn't be what gave her any emotional chemical imbalance she herself may have. follow now?

the umbilical chord is attatched to your placenta. not to your stomach. nutriants (the good stuff) go into your placenta and feed into your baby. your placenta is also where your baby lets go of his/her wastes, where you eventually pass them off through your own wastes. there are certain things (like the pepto bismol i mentioned earlier) that do not affect or harm your baby.

by the way, have you ended your plagiarism yet?

i think prozac is one of the few antidepressants you can take while youre pregnant. someone would have probably killed my sister if she wasnt on an antidepressant while she was pregnant.

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medications have labels "consult your doctor."

i'm sure her doctor knew what was going on. my point was her mother taking anti-depressants wouldn't be what gave her any emotional chemical imbalance she herself may have. follow now?

the umbilical chord is attatched to your placenta. not to your stomach. nutriants (the good stuff) go into your placenta and feed into your baby. your placenta is also where your baby lets go of his/her wastes, where you eventually pass them off through your own wastes. there are certain things (like the pepto bismol i mentioned earlier) that do not affect or harm your baby.
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silly you. getting my words twisted. i could of sworn that i had never said the umbilical cord was connected to the stomach. funny though of you to say. i like how you try so hard to make me look so ignorant :rolleyes:
either way. what your saying still doesnt justify the fact that whatever meds you take or what you eat still passes through the child.
protiens/carbs/hormones/drugs etc. etc.
its not a test tube baby.

and i agree with you kathryn. consult a doctor with what meds n shit you should take yadda yadda.
i wont forget when tom cruze got mad at the brooke shields for taking prozac when pregnant. hehe.
that was funny. scientology freak.

and maybe -nightcrawlers- mom just got regularely anti-depressent prescribed meds before she was pregnant.
i know that once i get my prescribed meds passed it always has a renew on the bottle.
depending on how old this insident that took place was, will identify the purpouse of why it happened.
maybe doctors thought it was ok for pregnant wemon to take during that period of time.
as like any other drug. only that time will tell.

and your last comment
try n stop me.

[quote="Jessica":33jv2w4p]
silly you. getting my words twisted. i could of sworn that i had never said the umbilical cord was connected to the stomach. funny though of you to say. i like how you try so hard to make me look so ignorant :rolleyes:
either way. what your saying still doesnt justify the fact that whatever meds you take or what you eat still passes through the child.
protiens/carbs/hormones/drugs etc. etc.
its not a test tube baby.

and i agree with you kathryn. consult a doctor with what meds n shit you should take yadda yadda.
i wont forget when tom cruze got mad at the brooke shields for taking prozac when pregnant. hehe.
that was funny. scientology freak.

and maybe -nightcrawlers- mom just got regularely anti-depressent prescribed meds before she was pregnant.
i know that once i get my prescribed meds passed it always has a renew on the bottle.
depending on how old this insident that took place was, will identify the purpouse of why it happened.
maybe doctors thought it was ok for pregnant wemon to take during that period of time.
as like any other drug. only that time will tell.

and your last comment
try n stop me.
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i was stating the umbilical chord facts for other people who may not have known. that's partially why it was said in another paragraph.

yes. katie, consult your doctor. just. like. i said. hu. go fig.

like i said, my point was that she isn't depressed because her mother took anti-depressants. i meant nothing more and nothing less. who got whose words twisted?

oh, and i'm pretty sure that nightcrawler's mom's psychiatrist noticed she was pregnant after a while. i mean..... ya can't really hide that fact.


i find it funny that you admit to plagiarism. you remind me so much of me when i was your age. being 100% serious and not trying to insult or attack you at all.... there's a lot you're going to regret in a few years.

oh, by the way. who's your registrar? does bone-garden use godaddy?

[quote="Jessica":2hsfmnaf]
and i agree with you kathryn. consult a doctor with what meds n shit you should take yadda yadda.
i wont forget when tom cruze got mad at the brooke shields for taking prozac when pregnant. hehe.
that was funny. scientology freak.
[/quote:2hsfmnaf]


i think he actually disagreed with her use of antidepressants to treat postpartum depression. im not sure if it was prozac, but it was definetely after she had the baby, not while she was pregnant. and he disagrees with all forms of psychiatry (as does scientology- [url=http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Psychiatry:_An_Industry_of_Death:2hsfmnaf]http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Psychiatry:_A...dustry_of_Death[/url:2hsfmnaf] ).

[quote="Kathryn Rose":25eif59l]
i think he actually disagreed with her use of antidepressants to treat postpartum depression. im not sure if it was prozac, but it was definetely after she had the baby, not while she was pregnant. and he disagrees with all forms of psychiatry (as does scientology- [url=http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Psychiatry:_An_Industry_of_Death:25eif59l]http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Psychiatry:_A...dustry_of_Death[/url:25eif59l] ).
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we should have taken the stress test in Oldtown last week!

when are we going to the psychiatry museum? 123BRAINWASH.

[quote="Courtney Riot":3egvggnj]
we should have taken the stress test in Oldtown last week!

when are we going to the psychiatry museum? 123BRAINWASH.
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sunday? we'll bring vanessa, alex, n eric so we dont get kidnapped by the crazies.

[quote="forgotten":mundyx3c]
i was stating the umbilical chord facts for other people who may not have known. that's partially why it was said in another paragraph.

yes. katie, consult your doctor. just. like. i said. hu. go fig.

like i said, my point was that she isn't depressed because her mother took anti-depressants. i meant nothing more and nothing less. who got whose words twisted?

oh, and i'm pretty sure that nightcrawler's mom's psychiatrist noticed she was pregnant after a while. i mean..... ya can't really hide that fact.
i find it funny that you admit to plagiarism. you remind me so much of me when i was your age. being 100% serious and not trying to insult or attack you at all.... there's a lot you're going to regret in a few years.
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Probably not. Because no offense, I love my mom, but she's a big woman. And always has been.
And I don't think she talked to her doctor at that time. Just set shit up over the phone with the pharmacy.
Pills come with a few refills and last a few weeks.

And yes, it's in your DNA, but a pregnant woman taking medications will also effect the baby.
Everything you do when you're pregnant effects the baby.

yes, meds can have effects on the baby. it depends on what they are. but, like i've said a million times, genetics is what most likely caused your depression.

all in all, you're a fine human being. you can read. you have decent grammar. you're not missing an arm. you don't have a second head. so cheers to all that!

[quote="forgotten":b5bz09x1]
yes, meds can have effects on the baby. it depends on what they are. but, like i've said a million times, genetics is what most likely caused your depression.

all in all, you're a fine human being. you can read. you have decent grammar. you're not missing an arm. [b:b5bz09x1]you don't have a second head[/b:b5bz09x1]. so cheers to all that!
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...you dont know that

aww shiiiiit

hehe your so silly forgotten. i mean. how childish (a going to be mother) can be?
and i pitty you for all of these assumptions you've made, have gotten to your head.
cant cry over spilled milk. you should know that already.
i love how you claimed that i plagiarised something that i didnt even know was yours. and still dont believe it till i see your face.
secondly do you understand the definition of plagiarism?
hehe. your funny

Definition:
What is plagiarism?
You commit plagiarism when you present someone else's ideas -published or unpublished - as if they were your own. People's ideas may be contained in

sorry sweety. in no way, shape or form does your pictures have my name on it.
nor claims that it is my idea, or neither says it was even mine. therefor has not been plagiarised.
cmon. hehe. (i intentionally stole from you? rofl) cute, but nice try =D
if you didnt want pictures of yours spread all over the internet either 1. dont upload them at all. or 2. put your name on them.
i cant control what other people do if they are posting it every such n such where. sorry.

and when i was talking about every lil thing you do does effect your baby. but nor did i say everything you do effects it in a bad way. thats where i think your miscommunicating this whole subject.
(cant go fighten the whole world)

yes. you have your opinions, i have mine.

and yes, you know me very well.

plagiarism, taking credit for something that isn't your's. you didn't have to know they were mine to plagiarise. you do it to other people to. you should really be concerned about your website.....

you should really try taking your own advice sometime. have a good day, dear.

I love Distillers messageboards.

I love how all the threads I make that are some what decent always end up in arguments.

naive yet so simple... JUST DONT PUT YOUR PICTURES ON THE INTERNET - DUMB-DIDDLY UMB DUMB.
Do i seriously have to explain the simplicity of all this step by step?
darlin. This is the internet. You upload your pictures, your pictures are going to circulate, need a minute to think about that one?
Claiming i went out of my way to waste my precious time to specifically seek you out, and steel these commonly seen pictures from you yourself is beyond fictitious.
and i know we'll just sit here running in circles like a faris wheel, saying the same thing over and over again and neither of us will stop.
like an annoying vicious cycle.
i dont think i need to justify myself to you for the sake of your own stupidity.

so this is where the conversation ends.
i'll just be the bigger person and walk away.
unless you wanna comment you'll just be talking to yourself. & i wont reply.
cause i dont care.

jeebus i say gooday

[quote="Kathryn Rose":1cdmay6t]
i think he actually disagreed with her use of antidepressants to treat postpartum depression. im not sure if it was prozac, but it was definetely after she had the baby, not while she was pregnant. and he disagrees with all forms of psychiatry (as does scientology- [url=http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Psychiatry:_An_Industry_of_Death:1cdmay6t]http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Psychiatry:_A...dustry_of_Death[/url:1cdmay6t] ).
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[i:1cdmay6t] Psychiatrists are responsible for creating suicide bombers, and masterminded the September 11 attacks[/i:1cdmay6t]
hahhaa scientologists... :rolleyes:

[quote="Vicky Wild":192jzm46]
I love how all the threads I make that are some what decent always end up in arguments.
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that's because you make 99% of all of these threads, lovebug.

oh but where would we be without post-whores?

After reading these threads. I just want to put across a point.

When you are pregnant, - you have a responsibility to house a growing being to the best of your ability.
Your nutrients become your childs nutrients. - perfectly simple, - not that hard to understand.
Many junkies have relatively healthy babies, some women who spend 9 months treading on egg shells and monitoring there every move the the book - give birth to an unhealthy baby. Tragic. Unfair. SUBJECTIVE.
There is no way someone can guarentee you a one day ticket to a perfect pregnancy with no complications some people smoke, drink and are okay, - some aren't and do everything 'right'.
as for prescription drugs harming/not harming a baby does nobody remeber THALIDOMIDE?
jesus. - there is no right answer at all. You can only do the best you can, - therefore no need to fight over it! :blink:

hair dye doesn't hamr your baby if you go to a professional btw